Each week, I meet up with the pastoral team at my church to help develop the sermon message for the upcoming week. In preparation, we were asked to contemplate the selected text, and here is what I came up with:
Titus 2:1-15 NIV1 You, however, must teach what is appropriate to sound doctrine. 2 Teach the older men to be temperate, worthy of respect, self-controlled, and sound in faith, in love and in endurance. 3 Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4 Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.
6 Similarly, encourage the young men to be self-controlled. 7 In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness 8 and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us. 9 Teach slaves to be subject to their masters in everything, to try to please them, not to talk back to them, 10 and not to steal from them, but to show that they can be fully trusted, so that in every way they will make the teaching about God our Savior attractive.
11 For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. 12 It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, 13 while we wait for the blessed hope—the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, 14 who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good. 15 These, then, are the things you should teach. Encourage and rebuke with all authority. Do not let anyone despise you.
Two thoughts come to mind.
1 - I actually got hung up at the end of verse 10 with the word attractive. It is profoundly subjective and relative to perspective if it is bent to human standards; the ”What do I find attractive” vs. ”What did God design as attractive.”
The 21st-century church, and as church history would attest, the church for all 21 centuries, has struggled with being obedient to remaining rooted in the strategy of Jesus in favor of our own human-made plans. There is brokenness inside of us that believes that the only way we will be remembered (have value; and at worst, be worshipped) is if we develop something to go beyond the cross. These are the cults of ”-ists”; John Calvin had them, Weasley, Popes, Orthodox Metropolitans, Pharisee Leaders, Piper, Chan, Tomlin, and I’m sure there are even some poor unfortunate McGeeists out there [God forbid]...
So what is attractive? Here is a quote from Elton Trueblood, a former Harvard Chaplin:
2 - Ok, Sermon metaphor time [if you’ve made it this far into my ramblings]. Trees require four things to live:
- Water - absorbed in through the roots
- Nutrients - absorbed in through the roots
- Carbon Dioxide - taken in by the leaves— releasing oxygen, giving life to the world around it.
- Light - photosynthesized by the leaves to convert water, carbon dioxide, and nutrients into sugars and proteins needed to grow and reproduce itself.
- A tree must branch out. Trunks must be upright and strong. Otherwise, the fruit will fall on its root system of origin, and either be cannibalized by the parent tree or cannibalize the parent. Likewise, we must branch out; we can’t just stick to our comfortable homogenous pockets where we can be attractive on our own. We must trust God and lean on him to take us to fertile soil, as Paul and the other 1st century missionaries did.
- We must be deeply rooted in Christ. The living water and nutrients come from areas of our lives that aren’t public (roots are not seen). If our public exercise of spirituality is more than our private exercise of spirituality, we will be unsustainable and easily crippled by droughts and darkness in our lives. The fruit proves the roots. Crabapple trees produce sour apples unfit for eating because their roots are shallow and only concerned about getting a high quantity of seed out into the field as fast as possible, sacrificing quality. It’s not attractive, it’s mildly effective and environmentally damaging.
- Green Leaves and Ripe fruit are not decorative for decorative sake, they are health indicators and invitations to the banquet, where the tree will serve itself as the main course. Just as Christ did, he has called us to die to self so that others may have life.
“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. This is my command: Love each other.” John 15:13, 16-17 NIV
Trees give off life-giving oxygen. They provide food. Their branches and trunk can be collected and formed into tools, shelter, or burned to provide warmth, protection, and a cooking source.
Trees take so that they may give. If we receive the ministry of the spirit with no intention to reciprocate, we are worse than crab apple trees.
One of my favorite autumn tradition on Long Island was going to the east forks where there were beautiful apple orchards and pumpkin patches. The kids would ride in the wagons and rejoice as we harvested our share of crops. The symmetry of the trees, how they worked together to protect one another, how their appearances were nearly identical; all of this pointed to an intentional design of a loving and caring farmer. It felt safe and trustworthy. We didn’t have to question the taste of the fruit, we knew it would be delicious and free of parasites.
Would it be possible to come across this phenomenon in the wilderness? Perhaps, but highly unlikely. We are not called to be alone, products of the wilderness. We are called to belong to God and to be planted in his orchard (the church). We are called to protect our brothers and sisters, to resemble them, and to bear much fruit, so that others may have life.
That is attractive to God. That was the strategy of Jesus.
We must be dedicated to following God’s design for attractive teaching, not our own. To do so, you must trust what God gives you. Don't trust what comes of yourself.
“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:5 NIV
Give away what God gives you. We are not our own but have been purposed for an eternal cause.
“Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds. Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life.” John 12:24-25 NIV)
Take opportunities to prepare for Thanksgiving, to be rooted in Christ, to bear fruit.
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” Galatians 5:22-23
Put aside family squabbles and political postures so that our celebration can be focused on Christ, not on us. Be a blessing to your families, friends, and neighbors. Be the light that reveals the promise that we have in Christ.